28 Female

 Hey I'm 28 yrs old female and Dr by profession ,i have 5 siblings and bhen and 3 bhai aik bara bhai hai or 2 chotay bhai jin ko walking disability mild form of CP child.mujhe aik suggestion chahiye ap sb se pehle mei Thora sa background bta dun bat ka mere ami abu ka relationship bilkul bhi acha nai tha apas mein or hmesha unki larayi ka ghussa hm sb bhen bhai pr niklta tha . Shuru se mene apne bhai chotay dono ki responsibility uthayi unko shower dene se le kr each and everything mei hi krti thi or agr is kaam mein kabhi koi kami reh jati to mere abu mujhe ma+tay thy . Meri bhen mere abbu ko bht achi lgti hai hmesha se wo usko mere se ziada pyar krte hen hmare ghr mein eid ke kapron se le kr hr chez uski Pasand ki ati thi or ami ko mana krte thy ke isko kch ni kehna jb bhi hmare ghr mein koi chez ati to pehle usko di jati thi jese eid ke kapray pehle wo Pasand krti thi phr jo usko Pasand ni atay thy wo kapray jutay mere abbu mujhe de dete thy halanke mere abbu aik bari post pr hen lekin phr bhi paison ke mamlay mein bhi unka hath meri sister ke liye khula tha or mujhe monthly 1000 dete or meri bhen ko 7-10k mera sara bachpan yehi sb dekh kr guzra ke jo chez usko Pasand ni ayegi wo mujhe milay gi or agr wo meri hai bhi to bhi tm usko de do kyunke wo choti hai . Agr mere bhaion ki care mein kch reh gya to abbu alag ma++ay thy or ami alag ma+ti thi . Mere medical college mein proposal aye meri ammi ne ab ko reject krdiya ke yeh kr ke abhi tmhri age ni hai or hm Punjabi mein rishta ni krengy,meri housejob mein bhi sb proposal reject kiye ke abhi hmne shadi ni krni jb training start hwi to aik ko haan bol di ami ne abbu se chup kr or muje yeh bola ke mei or tmhre bhai tmhri responsibility hen tm pehle mujhe alag ghar le kr do phr mei tmhri shadi krungi tm iese akelay apni zimedari se ni bhag skti ,abbu kehtay hen mene tm pr paisay kharch kiye hen pehle tm mera karz utaro ,is sb mein unhon ne aik ko haan krdi kyunke iske parents fout ho chukay sisters ki shadiyan hogai thi or wo akela tha lekin wo bht kanjus tha meri ami hr waqt kehti rehti thi ke yeh to aik ruppay bhi ni lgata or lawaris insan hai usko to kch pta hi nai hai rishtedari ka or at the end usko bhi inkar krdiya . Is sb mein mere or proposal aye lekin unko koi Pasand ni aya kabhi bhi at the end mujhe aik nurse Pasand aya theek hai wo nurse hai lekin usne mujhe hr jaga support kiya mujhe hr choti ghalti pr abbu abhi bhi ma+tay hen mei akelay ro ro kr so jati hun mere liye koi stand ni leta mujhe kehtay hen baap hai agr mara hai to kya hwa . Mujhe is insan ne hr tarah se support kiya meri aik or jaga job lgi mujhe hostel shift hona para mei life mein pehli bar hostel ja rahi thi nujhe ghr se koi bhi chornay ni aya,new city mujhe kch bhi ni pta tha mei akelay gai to wo mere sath aya meri ami ki ijazat se usne mujhe hostel mein job sb chahiye tha sb le kr diya each and everything wo family wise well off hai uski family me hmesha mujhe apni aulad ki tarah pyar kiya jo mun se nikala unhon ne provide kiya mene pehle bar baap ka pyar dekha kisi mard ko itna naram dekha itna supportive itna understanding jo hr bat pyar se samjhata hai ma+ta nai hai meri 3 months ki salary band hogai mujhe ghr se kisi ne 1 ruppay ni diya sb ko pta tha lekin kisi ne pocha tk ni ke tm kidr se kha rahi ho although hmare ghr mein sb acha earn krte hen . Meri ami kehti hen tm apne bhaion ki responsibility se bhagi ho unko mere sar pr phenk diya hai ,mene apni salary se hr month sb ke liye kapray jutay dinners krwati lekin kisi ne kabhi mere liye aik suit ni liya ke tmhri itni achi jaga job lgi hai to Mubarak ho mujhe 3 months ussi ne support kiya financially. Meri ami usse gifts leti uske sath dinners bhi kiye usko haan bol di bola tm befikr hojao iske abbu maan jain gy . Jb usne bola ke mere ghr walay anay chahtay hen to meri ami ne mujhe force kiya ke idhr ni krna or mujhe bht ma+a baal khenchay mei itna royi lekin inko tars ni aya jb nei weekend pr ghr ati to mujhe marti tanay deti cheekhti thi mujh pr or kehti thi ke tmhri shadi ni hogi yeh larka tmein chor dega or tmein talaq hogi tm mujhe chor kr kese shadi krti ho mei dekhti hun and at the end wohi hwa unhon ne mere abbu ko bta diya ke yeh nurse hai or iska chakkar chal raha hai or mene isko bht samjhaya ke nurse or doctor ki shadi ni hoskti lekin phr bhi yeh ni ruki . Ab abbu ne bola hai aj ke baad ghr na ana or idhr shadi ni hogi or agr hwi to mei tmein maar dalunga or sb ne mujhse bat band krdi hai . Mei bemar hon ya mar rahi hun mujhse koi bat ni krta na pehle pochtay thy or ab to bilkul ni pochtay 

Mei bht disheartened hun ami ke liye mene itna sb kiya wo jo kehti mei wohi krti unhon ne mujhe abbu se bat krne se roka ke yeh mujhe ma+ta hai tm isse bat na kro mene ni ki or ab wo mere abbu se batein kr rahi hoti hen or mei akeli hogai hun .mera itna haq nai ke mei kisi ko Pasand kr skun mei khush reh skun apni marzi se Zindagi guzarun mere abbu ne aik bar mujhse ni pocha un logon ki family ka ni pocha mujhe aik bar bta den uska character ganda hai wo insan ganda mei chor dungi lekin sirf nurse hai is waja se chor dun kyunke yeh society ko face ni kr skte . Jb dil krta hai mujhe marnay lg jatay hen batein sunatay hen tanay martay hen mujhse bat band krdete hen iese logon ke liye mei unko chor dun jis ki family ne mujhe pyar diya mujhe support kiya mera haal pocha . Mere foreign exams ki fee tk usne di inhon ne pocha tk ni mujhse . Mei apne bhaion ki responsibility se ni bhag rahi mene bat ki hwi hai ke shadi ke baad mei un dono ko sath le kr jaungi wo raazi hai hr bat se unhon ne bola hai ap property bolein hm wo likh krdengy ap jo bolein hm krengy lekin inkar na kren lekin ami or abbu zid pr hen ke idhr ni krengy 

Ap sb btayein mei sahi hun ya ghalat